If You Need Money, Get A Job: BBNAIJA Doyin Advises Females Who Depend On Men
Popular reality TV star, Doyinsola Anuoluwapo David, best known as Doyin, has admonished ladies to drop their entitlement mentality in relationships.
The reality Tv stars comment stems from a fan who asked for advise on what she should do after her boyfriend left her for calling him stingy.
Doyin stated that no female is expected to have entitlement mentality in relationships unless it is marriage, she believes that a man who you are in a relationship with is not expected to give you money everytime you ask and if he does; such female should take it as an act of generosity on the part of the male.
She took to Instagram with the screenshot of the lady soliciting for advise. She wrote!
“I don’t think he’s stingy because he doesn’t randomly give you money. If you have a man that gives to you when you ask then you’re lucky to have a responsible man but he doesn’t owe you random money just because you are his girlfriend.
“Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you….whatever he does is out of the generosity of his heart but you should never feel entitled to his money.
“Don’t let the internet deceive you, it’s nice to have a man that is intentional with his generosity but it’s not your birth right. There is nothing genetically programmed in a man that makes it easier for him to make money than a woman.
It’s not easy to make money, so no one wants to keep spending ‘randomly’. If you need random money, please get a job.”